A few days ago, I was out with some friends when one mentioned that she would be 65 later this year. That got me thinking. My mom's birthday is Monday. She would be turning 60 this year. I wonder what she would she would be like had she lived this long. Would she be close enough to have sleep overs with my kids? Would she and I have a close relationship? Would she have given me the emotional support I needed during my divorce? Would she have been there for me when I had my kids? What kind of grandma would she be?